Lesson Plan

Break the Ice Lesson Plan

Equip 7th graders with practical strategies—open-ended questions, active listening, and positive body language—to confidently initiate conversations through guided practice and reflection.

Strong conversation skills boost student confidence, foster positive peer relationships, and create an inclusive classroom atmosphere by reducing social anxiety.

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10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction

5 minutes

Step 2

Open-Ended Question Practice

10 minutes

Step 3

Role-Play Activity

10 minutes

Step 4

Reflection

5 minutes

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Breaking the Ice: Starting Conversations

Welcome students. Introduce today’s topic and objective: learning how to start conversations confidently using open-ended questions. Explain that we will compare question types and practice generating our own.

What Is a Closed-Ended Question?

Define closed-ended questions. Ask for a volunteer example. Emphasize that these questions limit responses.

What Is an Open-Ended Question?

Introduce open-ended questions. Highlight how they invite elaboration. Invite one or two student examples.

Closed vs. Open-Ended Questions

Draw students’ attention to the differences. You might write both examples side by side on the board and ask: which question would keep a conversation going?

Why Use Open-Ended Questions?

Discuss why we prefer open-ended questions when meeting someone new. Solicit student input and record key points on the board.

Open-Ended Conversation Starters

Read through these starters together. Ask volunteers to pick one prompt and practice asking it to a neighbor.

Your Turn: Craft Questions

Transition students to the handout. Explain they will write three open-ended questions based on prompts from the handout.

Next Up: Role-Play Practice

Explain the role-play process: in pairs, one student asks questions while the other practices active listening and positive body language. Then switch roles.

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