Lesson Plan
Hit the Pause Button Plan
Students will learn and apply the Stop-Think-Act framework to recognize and interrupt impulsive urges, practicing pause techniques in real-life scenarios.
Impulse control is key for academic success and healthy relationships. This lesson equips students with a simple strategy to pause before acting, reducing regrets and promoting self-management.
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Materials
Prep
Prepare Materials
10 minutes
Step 1
Impulse Meter Check (Warm-Up)
5 minutes
Step 2
Pause and Reflect Introduction
5 minutes
Step 3
Teach the Stop-Think-Act Framework
10 minutes
Step 4
Stop-Think-Act Role-Play Activity
15 minutes
Step 5
Reflection Minute (Cool-Down)
10 minutes

Slide Deck
Pause and Reflect
Welcome students and introduce today’s focus on impulse control. Explain that we’ll explore a simple framework called Stop-Think-Act to help us ‘hit pause’ before acting on urges.
Key Terms
Define each key term for the class. Invite volunteers to share their own examples of an impulse, an urge, or a time they managed themselves.
Why Pause?
Discuss why acting on impulse can cause regret or conflict. Ask students: “Can you think of a time when you acted without pausing? What happened?”
Stop-Think-Act Framework
Introduce the three steps at a high level. Explain that this simple process can be used anywhere, anytime.
Step 1: STOP
Model Step 1 by taking a deep breath and counting silently. Encourage students to do the same along with you.
Step 2: THINK
Use the texting scenario to illustrate Step 2. Ask: “What could happen if you text back angrily? What other options do you have?”
Step 3: ACT
Emphasize that Step 3 is about following through on the best option and then reflecting afterward.
Example: Texting Scenario
Walk the class through this real-life texting example. Prompt students for what they would do at each step.
Your Turn
Ask students to recall a recent moment when they acted on impulse. Have them apply the framework silently, then share out.

Warm Up

Activity


Cool Down
