Restorative Conference Steps
Introduce the flow of a restorative conference in six clear phases. Emphasize that this structure ensures consistency, respect, and student voice.
Script example:
“Welcome! Thank you for joining me. Today we’ll talk openly, listen deeply, and co-create a plan—no judgments, just understanding.”
Pass the talking piece at the end.
Remind the student you want to know their current state. Model vulnerability with your own check-in after theirs.
Use the student’s written reflection to ground the conversation. Point out strengths in their honesty.
Guide the student through understanding impact and ownership. Keep questions open-ended and supportive.
Work collaboratively—avoid imposing actions. Help the student articulate realistic next steps.
Close on a positive, supportive note. Confirm next check-in and express ongoing support.