Lesson Plan

Conflict Crushers Lesson Plan

Students will learn and practice active listening, I-messages, and compromise to resolve peer conflicts and demonstrate these strategies through guided role-plays.

Equipping students with conflict resolution skills fosters empathy, improves peer relationships, promotes a positive classroom climate, and reduces escalations in everyday disagreements.

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10 minutes

Step 1

Introduction

5 minutes

Step 2

Active Listening Practice

8 minutes

Step 3

I-Messages Workshop

7 minutes

Step 4

Role-Play Compromise

7 minutes

Step 5

Reflection and Closing

3 minutes

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Conflict Crushers: Conflict Resolution

Welcome students and introduce today’s session. Explain the title and agenda: learning three conflict-resolution strategies and practicing them.

Learning Objectives

Read the objectives aloud. Emphasize that by the end, students will practice and demonstrate each strategy.

Why Conflict Resolution?

Discuss why conflict resolution matters in school and life. Invite 1–2 student examples of small conflicts.

Strategy 1: Active Listening

Introduce Active Listening. Explain that it’s more than hearing—it's fully engaging with the speaker.

Active Listening Checklist

Distribute the [Active Listening Checklist](#active-listening-checklist). Walk through each step with a volunteer modeling speaker vs. listener.

Strategy 2: I-Messages

Explain I-Messages. Emphasize expressing your feelings without blaming the other person.

I-Message Formula

Display and explain the formula. Show an example. Pass out [I-Message Template Handout](#i-message-template-handout).

Strategy 3: Compromise

Define compromise. Stress that both sides give a little to find a win-win solution.

Practice: Active Listening

Explain the activity. Remind students to use the checklist and I-messages during this practice.

Workshop: I-Messages

Guide students through writing I-messages for a sample scenario on the board.

Role-Play: Compromise

Hand out [Conflict Scenarios Cards](#conflict-scenarios-cards) and role-play. Use the feedback worksheet to observe.

Reflection & Closing

Invite a few pairs to share their takeaways and solutions. Reinforce key points.

Thank You!

Thank the class for their participation. Encourage ongoing practice and remind them these are life skills.

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Conflict Crushers

Alyssha Walker

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