Lesson Plan

Choosing Calm Lesson Plan

Student will learn and practice respectful communication alternatives and self-regulation strategies to seek peer attention calmly, reducing profanity and spitting during interactions.

By replacing negative outbursts with learned calm-down techniques and alternative signals, the student will build self-regulation, improve peer relationships, and foster a more positive classroom environment.

Audience

Time

Approach

Materials

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up and Goal Setting

5 minutes

Step 2

Introduce Alternatives

15 minutes

Step 3

Model and Role-Play

20 minutes

Step 4

Guided Practice with Tokens

15 minutes

Step 5

Reflect and Plan

5 minutes

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Lesson Plan

Respect Express Lesson Plan

The student will learn and practice respectful attention‐seeking strategies—such as raising a hand or using a quiet signal—and replace screaming profanity and spitting with appropriate communication methods to request peer attention.

Challenging attention‐seeking behaviors disrupt learning and social relationships. Teaching respectful communication strategies will reduce profanity and spitting, improve peer interactions, and foster a positive classroom climate.

Audience

Time

Approach

Materials

Prep

Prepare Materials

10 minutes

Step 1

Warm‐Up and Introduce Goals

5 minutes

Step 2

Teach Alternative Strategies

15 minutes

Step 3

Role‐Play Practice

20 minutes

Step 4

Token Reinforcement Activity

15 minutes

Step 5

Reflect and Collect Data

5 minutes

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Slide Deck

Respect Express

Welcome the student and introduce the lesson. Explain that today’s session—Respect Express—is about learning respectful ways to get a peer’s attention instead of yelling or spitting.

Session Objectives

Read aloud the objective and why. Emphasize the goal is to replace profanity and spitting with respectful communication.

Why Respectful Communication?

Discuss why respectful communication matters. Ask the student to share any experiences of disruptive attention seeking and how it felt.

Social Story: Asking for Attention

Show the social story. Read it together, pausing to discuss key points. Ask the student: “Why do we use respectful requests?”

Steps for Respectful Requests

Point to each visual support step. Explain and model each one. Encourage the student to repeat steps aloud.

Comprehension Check

Use these prompts to check comprehension. Encourage full sentences and correct terminology.

Role-Play Practice

Model one scenario incorrectly (yelling/spitting), then correctly (hand raise/quiet tone). Let the student practice 3–4 scenarios, rotating roles.

Token Reinforcement

Explain token rules clearly. Show how tokens are placed and exchanged. Encourage verbal praise when tokens are earned.

Reflection & Data Collection

Guide the student through recording data. Ask reflective questions and write responses together.

Next Steps & Follow-Up

Summarize key takeaways. Set a follow-up check-in time. Encourage the student to use these strategies in upcoming classes.

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