Lesson Plan

Creating Our Safe Space

Students will build a trusting group by co-creating norms, practice “I feel … when …” statements, identify and verbalize personal boundaries, map trusted supports, and reflect on their learning.

Teaching emotional literacy and boundary-setting empowers students to communicate needs clearly, respect others’ limits, and feel safer in one-on-one interactions.

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Teacher Preparation

10 minutes

Step 1

Icebreaker & Group Agreements

10 minutes

Step 2

Emotion Vocabulary Activation

10 minutes

Step 3

Boundary Brainstorm Discussion

15 minutes

Step 4

Personal Safety Circle Activity

15 minutes

Step 5

Reflection & Assessment

10 minutes

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Slide Deck

Expressing Emotions Safely

Welcome students. Introduce the purpose of today’s session: learning to name and share emotions clearly and practice creating “I feel … when …” statements. Emphasize that this is a safe, confidential space where everyone’s contribution matters.

Why Talk About Feelings?

Explain that talking about feelings helps us understand ourselves and others, prevents misunderstandings, and builds stronger relationships.

Emotion Vocabulary

Activate prior knowledge. Invite students to shout out feeling words as you display the slide. Write additional words on chart paper if needed.

Brainstorm Emotions

Pair students up. Ask each pair to list three situations where someone might feel one of the words on the slide. After 2–3 minutes, invite a few pairs to share.

Crafting “I Feel … When …” Statements

Introduce the formula and model creating a statement on the board. Explain that this structure helps others understand exactly how we feel and why.

Examples in Action

Show students how to vary emotions and situations. Encourage complete sentences with specific details.

Your Turn: Craft a Statement

Give students 3 minutes to write their own “I feel … when …” statement. Circulate and provide support. Invite 2–3 volunteers to share aloud.

Introduction to Personal Boundaries

Explain that boundaries are ways to let others know how we want to be treated. Stress that clear boundaries help keep relationships healthy.

Reflection & Next Steps

Wrap up the slide deck. Encourage students to use these tools in real life. Prepare to transition to the next activity in the lesson plan.

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