Lesson Plan
Turning Upset Into Action Plan
Students will learn to recognize emotional triggers when peers’ choices upset them and use structured steps—identifying feelings, choosing calm-down strategies, and mapping solutions—to stay focused and problem-solve.
Big feelings can derail focus and relationships; teaching kids to manage upset helps them maintain control, reduce conflict, and build resilience when others’ actions affect them.
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Prep
Prepare Materials
5 minutes
Step 1
Introduce Triggers
5 minutes
Step 2
Explore Calm-Down Strategies
10 minutes
Step 3
Model Solution Mapping
5 minutes
Step 4
Independent Practice
7 minutes
Step 5
Reflect and Plan Next Steps
3 minutes

Slide Deck
Turning Upset Into Action
Today's Goals
Emotion Thermometer
Step 1: Recognize Your Trigger
Step 2: Calm-Down Strategies
Practice a Strategy
Step 3: Map Your Solution
Independent Practice
Reflect & Plan Next Steps
You’ve Got This!

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