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Turning Upset Into Action Plan

Students will learn to recognize emotional triggers when peers’ choices upset them and use structured steps—identifying feelings, choosing calm-down strategies, and mapping solutions—to stay focused and problem-solve.

Big feelings can derail focus and relationships; teaching kids to manage upset helps them maintain control, reduce conflict, and build resilience when others’ actions affect them.

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5 minutes

Step 1

Introduce Triggers

5 minutes

Step 2

Explore Calm-Down Strategies

10 minutes

Step 3

Model Solution Mapping

5 minutes

Step 4

Independent Practice

7 minutes

Step 5

Reflect and Plan Next Steps

3 minutes

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Turning Upset Into Action

Today's Goals

Emotion Thermometer

Step 1: Recognize Your Trigger

Step 2: Calm-Down Strategies

Practice a Strategy

Step 3: Map Your Solution

Independent Practice

Reflect & Plan Next Steps

You’ve Got This!

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Turning Upset Into Action

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Michael Aboulafia

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