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Mastering Middle School Calm Lesson Plan

Student will learn and practice three coping skills—deep breathing, positive self-talk, and mindful breaks—then integrate them using strategy cards to manage stress at school and home.

Middle schoolers face rising academic and social pressures. Teaching practical coping tools builds emotional resilience, self-regulation, and confidence, helping the student navigate challenges with greater calm and focus.

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10 minutes

Step 1

Warm-Up and Introduction

5 minutes

Step 2

Deep Breathing Technique

10 minutes

Step 3

Positive Self-Talk Strategy

10 minutes

Step 4

Mindful Breaks Planning

10 minutes

Step 5

Integrating Skills with Strategy Cards

15 minutes

Step 6

Reflection and Next Steps

10 minutes

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Mastering Middle School Calm

Welcome the student and introduce yourself. Explain that today’s session will help them learn tools to manage stress and feel more in control at school and home.

Session Objectives

Review each objective briefly. Emphasize that by the end of the session they’ll have practiced all skills and created a plan to use them.

What Are Coping Skills?

Ask: “What makes you feel stressed or overwhelmed at school or home?” Listen and validate their experiences. Define coping skills in their words.

Deep Breathing Technique

Display the Deep Breathing Infographic and point to each step. Model the pattern with your hands on your belly: inhale–hold–exhale.

Practice Deep Breathing

Guide the student through three rounds, counting out loud. After each round, ask how they feel and notice any changes.

Positive Self-Talk Strategy

Explain that the words we say to ourselves can change our mood. Show examples and encourage the student to practice saying them out loud.

Your Positive Statements

Hand over the worksheet and support the student as they write. Encourage personal relevance, e.g. changing examples to match their challenges.

Mindful Breaks Planning

Introduce the idea of taking short, mindful breaks to reset. Show the chart and explain each example briefly.

Your Mindful Break Plan

Help the student choose their top three from the brain-stormed list. Ask them why each feels helpful and realistic.

Integrating Skills with Strategy Cards

Present a scenario such as test anxiety or a crowded hallway. Show how to pick strategy cards in order and walk through each coping step.

Reflection & Next Steps

Distribute the reflection journal. Encourage honest answers and concrete plans for when and where they will practice each skill.

Great Work!

Congratulate the student on completing the session. Reinforce their ability to use the tools anytime they feel stressed.

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Mastering Middle School Calm

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