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Oops Not On Purpose Lesson Plan

Students will identify their own and others’ emotions and practice a four-step “Pause and Cool Down” strategy to reduce unintentional aggressive behavior.

Building emotional awareness and self-regulation empowers students to manage strong feelings, prevent accidental aggression, and foster positive social interactions.

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5 minutes

Step 1

Introduction and Emotion Identification

5 minutes

Step 2

Emotion Intensity Exploration

5 minutes

Step 3

Teach "Pause and Cool Down" Strategy

5 minutes

Step 4

Role-Play Practice

10 minutes

Step 5

Reflection and Closing

5 minutes

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Oops Not On Purpose

Welcome! Today we'll learn how to notice our own and others’ feelings and use a simple strategy to stay calm when accidents happen. Introduce the lesson objective and get the student excited.

Recognize Emotions

Show the Emotion Faces Cards one at a time. Ask the student to name each emotion and share a moment they felt that way. Encourage open sharing.

How Strong Are Emotions?

Display the Feeling Thermometer Visual and explain that emotions have intensity. Invite the student to place the cards at low, medium, or high to show how strong each emotion can feel.

Pause and Cool Down Steps

Introduce the four steps on the Pause and Cool Down Steps Poster. Model with a bump-into-you scenario. Have the student say each step aloud.

Role-Play Practice

Offer two simple accidental-aggression scenarios. Start the timer for about 2–3 minutes each. Guide the student through noticing the feeling, rating intensity, and using the four steps. Give positive feedback.

Reflection and Closing

Ask the student which step stood out most and why. Have them draw or write their favorite step on paper. Praise their effort and encourage them to use the strategy anytime they feel upset.

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