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Peer Support & Allyship

Peer Support & Allyship

Discover a curated collection of free resources focused on building relationship skills through peer support and allyship. This page empowers educators, students, and parents with actionable activities, ready-to-use lessons, and real-world scenarios that foster empathy, communication, and inclusive leadership. Unlock practical strategies to nurture supportive peer connections and create a more compassionate learning environment.

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Building Supportive Peer Networks

This lesson focuses on building supportive relationships among classmates through discussion, role-play, and group exercises. Students will learn how to offer and seek support, fostering a sense of community and belonging. This lesson is important as it helps students develop social-emotional skills, enhances empathy, and creates a positive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Suzanne Graun

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AZ Counselor

Building Positive Peer Relationships

This lesson aims to foster positive peer relationships among students by engaging them in a short video, a collaborative activity, and a guided discussion. The lesson is designed to be interactive and reflective, encouraging students to think about the importance of healthy friendships and how they can contribute to a supportive school environment. By focusing on these skills, students will be better equipped to build and maintain positive relationships, which are crucial for their social and emotional development. This lesson aligns with ASCA Mindsets & Behaviors standards, particularly those focusing on social skills, self-management, and relationship-building.

Tier 1
2/25
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Maria Denton

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NC Counselor

Building Community Through Peer Support

This lesson introduces students to the concept of Peer Support Circles, where they can share thoughts and feelings in a supportive environment. It aims to build a sense of community and improve communication skills among students. By participating in these circles, students will learn to express themselves openly and listen empathetically to others, fostering a supportive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Imani Russell

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MI Social Worker, Special Education Teacher, Behavior Interventionist

Building Peer Support Through Teamwork

In this lesson, students will engage in activities designed to build peer support and teamwork skills. Through group projects and team-building exercises, students will learn the importance of collaboration and mutual aid. This lesson is crucial for developing a supportive classroom environment where students feel valued and connected to their peers.

Tier 1
2/25
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Ariana Bueno

S

MA Counselor, Special Education Teacher, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Building Bridges: Friendship and Empathy

In this lesson, students will explore the importance of empathy in building strong friendships. Through interactive activities and discussions, they will learn how to understand and support their friends, fostering a more inclusive and caring classroom environment. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that are essential for creating a supportive and inclusive community.

Tier 1
2/25

Courtenay Labson

S

MA Counselor

Building Peer Support Systems

In this lesson, students will discuss the importance of peer support and learn how to create support systems to help those affected by bullying. This lesson is crucial as it empowers students to support each other, fostering a positive and inclusive environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Jade Hodge

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TN English

Allyship Adventures

In this engaging lesson, 1st graders will explore the concept of allyship, learning how to support and stand up for their friends and classmates. This lesson is important as it fosters empathy, kindness, and inclusivity from a young age, helping students build a supportive classroom community. The session will last 30 minutes and is designed for a Tier 1 classroom setting.

Tier 1
4/25

Courtenay Labson

S

MA Counselor

Friendship and Support

This lesson focuses on teaching 3rd-grade students the importance of friendship and peer support for mental wellness. Through interactive activities and discussions, students will learn how to identify qualities of a good friend, understand the value of supporting peers, and practice empathy. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive classroom environment and helping students develop essential social-emotional skills.

Tier 1
2/25

Allison Thibodaux-Wing

E

CA Psychologist

Peer Support Circles

Facilitate peer-led support circles, where students in grades 7-12 have the chance to discuss personal challenges in a structured and supportive environment. This lesson enhances communication skills and builds supportive student networks.

Tier 1
3/18

Jade Hodge

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TN English

Peer Support Circles

Facilitate peer-led support circles, where students in grades 7-12 have the chance to discuss personal challenges in a structured and supportive environment. This lesson enhances communication skills and builds supportive student networks.

Tier 1
3/13

Tamara peay

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TN English

Peer Support Circles

Facilitate peer-led support circles, where students in grades 7-12 have the chance to discuss personal challenges in a structured and supportive environment. This lesson enhances communication skills and builds supportive student networks.

Tier 1
3/25

Ciara McNearly

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TN Instructor

Friendship Skills

This is a 30-minute Tier 2 small-group workshop for 6th graders focused on CASEL Relationship Skills—empathy and cooperation. Students will engage in interactive activities to practice perspective-taking, collaborate on role-play challenges, and reflect on supportive peer interactions.

Tier 2
Yesterday
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Karen Sullivan

S

MA Counselor, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Building a Bully-Free Community

In this lesson, students will engage in collaborative activities to understand the roles of bystanders, allies, and upstanders in preventing bullying. They will work together to create a campaign that promotes kindness and inclusion within their school. This lesson is important as it empowers students to take active roles in fostering a positive and supportive school environment, enhancing their social-emotional skills and awareness.

Tier 1
2/25
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Rachel Chamberlain

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TX Counselor

Building a Bully-Free Community

In this lesson, students will engage in collaborative activities to understand the roles of bystanders, allies, and upstanders in preventing bullying. They will work together to create a campaign that promotes kindness and inclusion within their school. This lesson is important as it empowers students to take an active role in fostering a positive and supportive school environment, enhancing their social-emotional skills and empathy.

Tier 1
2/25
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Rachel Chamberlain

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TX Counselor

Mastering the Art of Friendship

This lesson focuses on teaching 7th graders essential social skills to build and maintain friendships. By understanding the importance of communication, empathy, and conflict resolution, students will be better equipped to form meaningful relationships. This single 30-minute session will provide students with practical strategies to enhance their social interactions, fostering a supportive and inclusive classroom environment.

Tier 1
4/11
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karen.putnam

Instructor

Be an Ally, Be an Upstander

This lesson for 6th graders focuses on teaching students the importance of allyship and being an upstander in their communities. Through engaging activities and discussions, students will learn how to support their peers and stand up against bullying and injustice. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive and inclusive classroom environment.

Tier 1
4/28

Courtenay Labson

S

MA Counselor

The Friendship Formula

In this single 30-minute Tier 1 SEL lesson, 7th graders will explore the key elements of healthy friendships—communication, trust, empathy—and practice skills to build and maintain strong peer relationships. By engaging in interactive activities and reflective discussions, students will gain confidence in identifying positive qualities in themselves and others, setting the stage for supportive, lasting friendships.

Tier 1
Monday
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Itzel Perez

E

CA Counselor

Quick Connect: Building Supportive Bonds

In this lesson, 9th graders will engage in quick activities to build supportive relationships. Through ice-breakers and paired discussions, students will practice active listening and empathy, which are crucial skills for developing strong connections with peers. This lesson is important as it helps students feel more connected and supported in their school environment, promoting a positive and inclusive atmosphere.

Tier 1
2/25

diana mclaughlin

S

MA Counselor

Building Friendships

This lesson is designed to help children ages 9-10 learn how to build and maintain healthy friendships. The lesson includes interactive activities, group discussions, and a reflection period to help students identify key characteristics of good friends and practice social skills.

Tier 1
2/25

Tamara peay

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TN English

Supportive Friendships: Building Connections

In this lesson, students will explore the characteristics of supportive friendships and learn strategies to maintain these relationships. Through engaging activities and discussions, students will develop empathy and active listening skills, which are crucial for building strong, supportive connections. This lesson is important as it helps students understand the value of healthy friendships and equips them with tools to nurture these relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Ariana Bueno

S

MA Counselor, Special Education Teacher, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Supportive Friend Skills

This lesson aims to teach high school students how to be supportive friends through active learning strategies. Students will engage in a role-playing activity, watch a short video, and participate in a guided discussion. This lesson is important as it helps students develop empathy, communication skills, and the ability to support peers in need, fostering a more inclusive and caring school environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Angela Hamberlin

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TX Counselor

Friendship Fun

This lesson helps students identify and describe healthy peer relationships through engaging activities. Understanding healthy relationships is crucial for social development and emotional well-being, fostering a supportive and inclusive environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

E

CA Psychologist

Kindness Counts: Building Peer Relationships

In this lesson, students will learn the importance of being kind and considerate to their peers. The lesson includes a short video on bullying, a classroom discussion, and a collaborative activity to reinforce positive behaviors. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive and inclusive classroom environment, which can lead to improved mental health and academic performance for all students.

Tier 1
2/25
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Shayla Chandler

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NY Instructor

Friendship in Action

This lesson helps students understand the qualities of a good friend through active and collaborative learning. By engaging in discussions and activities, students will explore the importance of kindness, empathy, and cooperation in friendships. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills and fostering a positive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Jill Chisholm

S

MA Social Worker

Navigating Peer Relationships

This lesson focuses on helping a freshman student develop self-advocacy skills and effectively process peer relationships and conflicts. Through trauma-informed teaching and inquiry-based learning, the student will explore personal experiences and strategies for managing peer interactions. This lesson is important as it empowers students to navigate social dynamics confidently and constructively.

Tier 3
2/25
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Caitlyn Hall

S

MA Counselor

Empathy and Allyship Workshop

This lesson focuses on developing empathy and allyship skills among adults. Through a combination of video, discussion, and activities, participants will explore the importance of empathy in building connections and supporting others. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive and inclusive environment, enhancing interpersonal relationships, and promoting understanding and collaboration.

Tier 1
2/25
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Elizabeth Baker

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TX Counselor

Friendship Blueprint

In this 30-minute, single-session lesson for 7th graders, students will explore key relationship skills—communication, empathy, and conflict resolution—through interactive activities and discussion. Developing these skills helps them build stronger friendships, navigate social challenges, and foster a positive classroom community.

Tier 1
Yesterday

QA Individual

h

NY Counselor

Friendship Challenge

This lesson engages 4th-grade students in a game-based activity to explore problem-solving in difficult situations with friends and support anti-bullying. Through role-playing and discussion, students will learn strategies to stand up for themselves and others, fostering a supportive and inclusive environment. This lesson is important as it empowers students with the skills to handle conflicts and promotes a positive school culture.

Tier 1
2/25
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Sophia Perlmutter

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NY Social Worker

Reflecting on Peer Relationships

This lesson encourages 7th graders to reflect on their relationships with peers and how these relationships have evolved over time. Through a combination of experiential learning and collaborative discussion, students will engage in activities that promote self-awareness and empathy. This lesson is important as it helps students develop social-emotional skills, fostering a supportive and understanding classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Jenny Kaplan

S

MA Counselor

Who's Got Your Back? Building Your Support Squad

In this engaging 3rd-grade lesson, students will explore the concept of a support system and identify the people in their lives who 'have their back.' This lesson is crucial for fostering social-emotional awareness and helping students recognize the importance of community and relationships. The session will include a mix of reading, activities, and a fun game to reinforce the concept, all within a 30-minute timeframe.

Tier 1
2/27

Katie Ray

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TX Counselor

Quick Connect: Supportive Relationships

In this brief session, students will explore the core elements of supportive relationships and engage in an activity to identify supportive figures in their lives. This lesson is important as it helps students recognize the value of supportive relationships in enhancing their well-being, fostering a sense of belonging, and building resilience.

Tier 1
2/25

Rebecca Thompson

S

MA General Education Teacher

Friendship Builders

In this lesson, students will engage in interactive games and discussions to explore the importance of friendship and develop skills to build and maintain healthy relationships. This lesson is crucial as it helps students understand the value of friendships, learn how to communicate effectively, and practice empathy and cooperation, which are essential skills for their social and emotional development.

Tier 1
2/25
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Stephanie Bonoan

E

CA Math, History, Art, Language Arts

Who's Got Your Back? Discovering Your Support Squad

In this engaging 1st-grade lesson, students will explore the concept of support systems by identifying the people in their lives who help them. This lesson is important as it fosters emotional awareness and helps students recognize the importance of seeking help and building relationships. The session will last 30 minutes and include a fun game to reinforce learning.

Tier 1
2/27

Katie Ray

q

TX Counselor

Connection Quest: Building Peer Relationships

In this lesson, students will engage in team-building exercises designed to enhance peer relationships and teamwork. Through activities focusing on listening, communication, and mutual support, students will foster a deeper sense of connection with their peers. This lesson is important as it helps students develop essential social skills that are crucial for their personal and academic growth.

Tier 1
2/25
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Michelle Kriebel

T

MD Instructor

Friends Helping Friends!

This lesson will teach 1st graders the importance of positive peer interactions through an engaging video, an interactive worksheet, and a fun activity. Building positive peer relationships is crucial at this age as it fosters a supportive and inclusive classroom environment. Students will learn how to be respectful, kind, and helpful to their classmates.

Tier 1
2/25

Delilah Murray

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NY Counselor

Friendship Builders

This lesson plan is designed for a group of second graders who struggle with making and keeping friends. Over nine sessions, students will engage in activities and discussions that promote friendship skills, such as communication, empathy, and cooperation. This lesson is important as it helps students develop social skills that are crucial for their emotional well-being and success in school.

Tier 2
2/25
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Veronica Huizar

D

AZ Counselor

Empathy Circle

This lesson involves creating a supportive circle space where students can share experiences and listen to peers, fostering a culture of understanding and acceptance. It helps students appreciate diverse perspectives and builds a warm community atmosphere, which is crucial for their social-emotional development.

Tier 1
2/25
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Joleen Shillingford

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NY Counselor

Friendship Builders

This 3-session lesson for 3rd graders focuses on developing friendship-building skills, essential for social-emotional growth. Students will engage in activities that promote understanding, empathy, and effective communication, helping them form and maintain positive relationships.

Tier 1
4/9
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hborden

S

MA Social Worker

Bias Busters: Building Empathy

This lesson aims to address incidents of bias among 7th-grade students by fostering empathy and understanding. Through engaging activities and discussions, students will learn to recognize and challenge their own biases, promoting a more inclusive classroom environment. This single 30-minute session is crucial for developing social-emotional skills and creating a respectful community.

Tier 1
4/29

Erica

S

MA Counselor, General Education Teacher

Peer Support Workshop

This Peer Support Workshop is designed for 5th-grade students with lower cognition scores to help them develop basic listening and empathy skills. Through a combined role-play and drawing activity, students will learn how to support their peers in a friendly and understanding manner. This lesson is important as it helps students build foundational social skills, fostering a more inclusive and supportive classroom environment.

Tier 2
2/25
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Jamie McGrath

S

MA Behavior Interventionist

Buddy Up Against Bullying

In this lesson, students will learn about bullying and the importance of friendship in preventing it. Using the video 'Ways to Stop Bullying,' students will discuss the steps to handle bullying situations. They will then participate in an activity to create friendship bracelets and discuss how to be a good friend. This lesson aims to empower students to stand against bullying and build supportive relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Bella Lopez

D

AZ Instructor

Building Friendships

In this lesson, students will explore the importance of friendships and learn essential social skills to build and maintain healthy relationships. Through role-playing activities and group discussions, students will practice empathy, communication, and cooperation. This lesson is crucial for young students as it helps them develop interpersonal skills that are vital for their social and emotional growth.

Tier 1
2/25
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Jamie Ruble

a

NC Counselor

Friendship Building Challenge

This lesson engages students in a game-based activity designed to help them introduce themselves and build new friendships. Through a series of interactive and collaborative tasks, students will learn effective communication and social skills. This lesson is important as it fosters a sense of community and belonging, which is crucial for students' social-emotional development and well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Julia McGary

S

MA Counselor

Path to Positivity: Building a Supportive Network

This lesson for Grades 5-6 aims at strengthening peer connections and building a supportive classroom network. Through guided discussions and cooperative games, students learn the importance of positive relationships and community support.

Tier 1
4/16
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Melissa Avery

D

AZ Counselor

Peer Support Squad

In this 40-minute, single-session workshop, 6th graders will develop foundational peer counseling skills—active listening, empathy, and supportive feedback—through interactive activities and discussions, creating a more caring classroom community.

Tier 1
Monday
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Makaya Wilson

Instructor

Building Positive Relationships

This lesson focuses on helping students identify the characteristics of positive relationships and develop strategies to be assertive in the face of peer pressure. By understanding these concepts, students will be better equipped to make informed decisions and maintain healthy relationships. This lesson is important as it empowers students to recognize and cultivate positive influences in their lives, fostering a supportive and respectful environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Mayra Mendoza Saenz

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TX Counselor

The Friendship Formula

This lesson focuses on teaching 7th graders essential friendship skills, such as communication, empathy, and conflict resolution, in a single 30-minute session. These skills are crucial for building and maintaining healthy relationships, which are important for students' social and emotional development.

Tier 1
4/25
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rileyca

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TX School Administrator

Empathy Building: Walking in Others' Shoes

In this lesson, students will engage in activities designed to build empathy and understanding, which are key components in preventing bullying. Through guided reflections, group discussions, and a video on the power of connection, students will learn to see situations from others' perspectives, enhancing their ability to empathize. This lesson is important as it fosters a supportive and inclusive classroom environment, helping students develop essential social-emotional skills.

Tier 1
2/25
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Holly Robison

q

TX Counselor

Empathy & Friendship Journey

This 6-week lesson plan is designed to help 4th-grade girls develop essential social-emotional skills such as empathy, kindness, perspective-taking, conflict resolution, and understanding the importance of friendship. Through engaging activities, discussions, and multimedia resources, students will explore these themes in a supportive and collaborative environment. This program aims to foster a positive classroom culture and equip students with the skills needed to build and maintain healthy relationships.

Tier 1
4/28
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Kelly Emmett

S

MA Counselor

Friendship Fun: Building Bonds

This lesson plan is designed to help second graders reduce anxiety around making friends through engaging activities and discussions. Over six weeks, students will participate in game-based and collaborative learning activities that promote understanding and empathy. The lesson includes a video component to introduce concepts and a quiz to reinforce learning. By the end of the program, students will feel more confident in their ability to form and maintain friendships, leading to a more positive school experience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Kim Terwilliger

S

MA Counselor

Friendship Builders

This 5-session small group counseling lesson for 2nd graders focuses on developing social skills and understanding friendship. Through engaging activities, discussions, and games, students will learn how to communicate effectively, show empathy, and build strong friendships. This lesson is crucial for fostering a positive classroom environment and supporting students' social-emotional development, with differentiation strategies for students with disabilities.

Tier 2
4/16
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Jami Dion

S

MA School Administrator

Empathy Building Workshop

This lesson focuses on developing empathy among 3rd-grade students through guided activities and group discussions. Students will learn to understand others' feelings and perspectives, which is crucial in preventing bullying and fostering a supportive classroom environment. By engaging in these activities, students will enhance their social-emotional skills, leading to a more empathetic and inclusive community.

Tier 1
2/25

Bridget Horan

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TX Counselor

Pressures of the Playground

This small group activity focuses on the subtle forms of peer pressure that occur in everyday school settings. Students will learn strategies to resist negative influences and build supportive friendships. This lesson is crucial for helping students navigate social dynamics and develop resilience against peer pressure, fostering a positive school environment. Designed for a 7th-grade group, this session will last 30 minutes and is classified under Tier 2: Group Supports.

Tier 2
3/20
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Kayle Jordan

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NC Counselor

Friendship Fun

This lesson aims to help first-grade students understand the importance of friendship and how to rebuild it through fun and engaging activities. By using game-based learning and restorative practices, students will learn how to communicate effectively, show empathy, and work together to solve problems. This lesson is crucial for developing social skills and fostering a positive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Sydney Reynolds

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NY Special Education Teacher

Friendship Builders

This lesson focuses on helping students understand the importance of maintaining friendships and developing skills to do so effectively. Through discussion and role-playing activities, students will explore different scenarios and strategies for keeping friendships strong. This lesson is important as it fosters social-emotional learning and helps students build essential interpersonal skills.

Tier 1
2/25
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Rachel Doe

S

MA Social Worker

Friendship Formula

This lesson focuses on helping 7th graders develop essential social skills for making and maintaining friendships. Through engaging activities and discussions, students will learn how to initiate conversations, show empathy, and build trust, which are crucial for forming meaningful connections. This lesson is designed for a small group setting, ideal for students who need extra support in social interactions, and will be completed in one 30-minute session.

Tier 2
4/4
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Melissa Mader

S

MA Counselor

Circle of Support

This lesson introduces 3rd grade students to SEL responsive circles, a tool for fostering emotional intelligence and community in the classroom. Through experiential and collaborative activities, students will learn how to express their feelings and listen to others in a supportive environment. This lesson is important as it helps students develop empathy, communication skills, and a sense of belonging, which are crucial for their social and emotional development.

Tier 1
2/25
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Hallie Boviard

S

MA Counselor

Friendship Superpowers

In this 30-minute Tier 1 lesson for 2nd graders, students will discover and practice key friendship skills—like kindness, listening, and empathy—through interactive discussions, role-plays, and reflection. Building strong friendships helps students feel connected, supported, and confident in social settings.

Tier 1
Monday
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Ashley Maxwell

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MN Social Worker

Friendship Builders

This lesson teaches students how to build and maintain healthy friendships. Through discussions and group activities, they will learn about trust, communication, and conflict resolution. This lesson is important as it helps students develop essential social skills that are crucial for their personal and academic growth.

Tier 1
2/25
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Raelyn McCray

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TN Counselor

Friendship Foundations

In this 30-minute lesson, 9th graders will explore the qualities of healthy relationships, practice communication skills, and reflect on boundaries. This Tier 1 lesson builds social awareness and equips students with real-world tools for stronger, more supportive friendships.

Tier 1
Yesterday
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Latoya Ogunbona

Counselor, Social Worker