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Relationship Skills

Relationship Skills

Discover a curated collection of free resources dedicated to building strong relationship skills as outlined by CASEL. Educators, students, and parents will find practical lessons, interactive activities, and real-world examples to foster communication, teamwork, and conflict resolution. Empower learners to form healthy connections and thrive socially, both in and out of the classroom.

Communication Skills

Cooperation & Teamwork

Conflict Resolution

Healthy Boundaries

Peer Support & Allyship


Suggested Resources

Can We Read Minds?

Tier 1

10th Grade Class

60 mins

A dynamic lesson plan that teaches students how to use active listening and nonverbal cues to deepen empathy and understanding. Helps 10th graders strengthen peer relationships by ‘mind-reading’ emotions.

Trust Triangle

Tier 2

10th Grade Group

45 mins

A small-group intervention to practice building and maintaining trust among peers using role-plays and reflection prompts. Strengthens collaboration and reliability skills.

Empathy Engine

Tier 3

10th Grade Student

30 mins

An individualized plan to boost students’ ability to identify and respond to others’ feelings. Includes scaffolded exercises and self-paced reflections.

How Do You Connect?

Tier 1

10th Grade Class

50 mins

A whole-class lesson exploring strategies for authentic conversations, from icebreakers to deep questions. Encourages students to practice meaningful connections.

Active Listening

Tier 2

10th Grade Group

40 mins

A focused small-group routine to develop attentive listening skills through paired activities and peer feedback. Builds respect and reduces misunderstandings.

Conflict Cupid

Tier 3

10th Grade Student

35 mins

An individualized conflict-resolution plan that guides students through understanding triggers, expressing needs, and creating win-win solutions.

What Makes Us Tick?

Tier 1

10th Grade Class

55 mins

A lesson asking students to explore their own and others’ personal values to foster mutual respect. Promotes self-awareness and deeper peer connections.

Bond Builders

Tier 2

10th Grade Group

45 mins

A small-group toolkit with collaborative games and protocols to strengthen group cohesion and mutual support among students.

Emotion Odyssey

Tier 3

10th Grade Student

30 mins

A personalized journey for students to map mood patterns, identify coping strategies, and track progress in handling relationships more positively.

Can You Read Me?

Tier 1

10th Grade Class

60 mins

An interactive lesson where students practice recognizing hidden emotions in peers through body language and tone. Strengthens sensitivity and communication.

Peer Power

Tier 2

10th Grade Group

50 mins

A small-group mentoring plan in which students coach each other on relationship challenges, using structured peer-to-peer feedback cycles.

Connection Cosmos

Tier 3

10th Grade Student

40 mins

An individual self-paced module guiding students to set relationship goals, chart progress, and celebrate achievements in their social sphere.

Community Resources

Community Resources

Healthy Relationships Circle

This lesson focuses on helping 9th graders engage in a brief discussion about healthy relationships. The aim is to provide students with a safe space to express their thoughts and learn about the key components of healthy relationships, such as communication, trust, and mutual respect. This lesson is important as it encourages students to develop interpersonal skills and understand the importance of healthy relationships in their personal and social lives.

Tier 1
2/25
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Melissa Gollihar

D

AZ Counselor

Healthy Relationships 101

In this lesson, students will explore the components of healthy relationships, learning to identify positive and negative relationship traits. Through discussions and group activities, they will apply these concepts to real-life situations. This lesson is important as it equips students with the skills to foster healthy interpersonal relationships, which are crucial for their social and emotional development.

Tier 1
2/25
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Paul Tentindo

S

MA Psychologist

Navigating Romantic Relationships with Care

This lesson helps 12th-grade students navigate the complexities of romantic relationships by focusing on key aspects such as communication, consent, and mutual respect. Through a brief discussion and activity, students will gain insights into healthy relationship dynamics, which are crucial for their personal development and well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Daisy Astorga

E

CA Counselor

Building Bridges: Social Awareness & Relationships

This lesson focuses on developing social awareness and relationship skills through interactive activities and reflective discussions. Students will engage in a video analysis of social interactions to better understand the dynamics of communication and empathy. This lesson is crucial for fostering emotional intelligence and improving students' ability to navigate social situations effectively.

Tier 1
2/25
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Avriel Emanuel

h

NY Social Worker

The Heart of Healthy Relationships

This lesson teaches middle school students essential conflict resolution and communication skills to foster healthy peer interactions and understanding. Through engaging discussions, hands-on activities, and clear assessment criteria, students will develop empathy and practical strategies for resolving conflicts peacefully.

Tier 1
5/21
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Patty Allen

E

CA Social Worker

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson plan is designed to help 8th-grade students understand and develop healthy relationships. Over four weeks, students will engage in inquiry-based and collaborative learning activities that promote understanding of key concepts such as communication, respect, and boundaries. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential life skills to foster positive interactions and relationships, contributing to their overall well-being and success in the global community.

Tier 1
2/25

Tracy David

S

MA Social Worker, Counselor

Building Blocks of Healthy Relationships

This lesson focuses on the essential elements of healthy relationships, such as communication, trust, and mutual respect. Through interactive scenarios and guided discussions, students will learn to identify and cultivate these components in their relationships. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that are vital for personal and interpersonal growth.

Tier 1
2/25
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Loren Baccari

S

MA Counselor

Building Positive Peer Relationships

This lesson aims to foster positive peer relationships among students by engaging them in a short video, a collaborative activity, and a guided discussion. The lesson is designed to be interactive and reflective, encouraging students to think about the importance of healthy friendships and how they can contribute to a supportive school environment. By focusing on these skills, students will be better equipped to build and maintain positive relationships, which are crucial for their social and emotional development. This lesson aligns with ASCA Mindsets & Behaviors standards, particularly those focusing on social skills, self-management, and relationship-building.

Tier 1
2/25
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Maria Denton

a

NC Counselor

Healthy Relationships 101

In this lesson, students will explore the key components of healthy relationships, including communication, respect, and boundaries. Through discussions and activities, they will learn to differentiate between healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors. This lesson is crucial for helping students develop the skills needed to build and maintain positive relationships, which are essential for their social and emotional well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Tracey Bennett

q

TX Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

In this lesson, students will explore the components of healthy relationships, focusing on communication, respect, and boundaries. Through group discussions and role-playing activities, students will practice these skills, enhancing their understanding and ability to foster healthy relationships. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that are essential for personal and interpersonal growth.

Tier 1
2/25
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Kaniesha Mcewen

q

TX Counselor

Building Bridges: The Power of Social Connections

This lesson focuses on the importance of building and maintaining healthy relationships. Students will engage in discussions and team-building exercises to explore different scenarios and develop skills for fostering positive social connections. This lesson is crucial for helping students recognize the value of supportive relationships and how they contribute to personal and social well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Shawna Cruz

S

MA Counselor

Relationship Bingo

This lesson introduces 9th-grade students to the concept of relationships through a fun and interactive bingo game. The game encourages students to think about and discuss their thoughts and feelings regarding relationships. This approach helps students develop social-emotional skills and promotes open communication, which is essential for their personal growth and understanding of relationships.

Tier 1
2/25
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Samantha Petroski

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PA Instructor

Building Supportive Peer Networks

This lesson focuses on building supportive relationships among classmates through discussion, role-play, and group exercises. Students will learn how to offer and seek support, fostering a sense of community and belonging. This lesson is important as it helps students develop social-emotional skills, enhances empathy, and creates a positive classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25

Suzanne Graun

D

AZ Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

In this lesson, students will explore the essential components of healthy relationships, such as consent, communication, and mutual respect. Through interactive discussions and group activities, students will learn to identify and practice these elements in their own relationships. This lesson is crucial for fostering a safe and supportive environment where students can develop the skills needed to build and maintain healthy relationships throughout their lives.

Tier 1
2/25
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Tennille Deming Perkins

q

TX Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson explores the characteristics of healthy relationships and their contribution to mental well-being. Through role-plays and group discussions, students will identify key traits of healthy relationships and reflect on their importance. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills and promoting mental health awareness among students.

Tier 1
2/25
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Matthew Malowski

S

MA Counselor

Unlocking the Power of Connections: Building Bridges in the Classroom

In this engaging 9th-grade lesson, students will explore the importance of connections and relationships in their lives through fun activities and games. This lesson aims to foster a sense of community and enhance interpersonal skills, making it relevant and applicable to students' everyday experiences. The session will last 45 minutes and is designed to be inclusive for all students, providing a supportive environment for learning and growth.

Tier 1
3/11
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Alison Nowicki

S

MA Counselor

Navigating Teenage Relationships

This lesson focuses on helping 9th-grade students understand and navigate the complexities of teenage relationships. It is designed as a Tier 2 support, providing targeted guidance for small groups who may need extra help in developing healthy relationship skills. The session will last 30 minutes and aims to equip students with practical strategies for communication, empathy, and conflict resolution in their interactions with peers.

Tier 2
4/2

Consepsion Martinez

a

NC Social Worker

Friendship Skills

This is a 30-minute Tier 2 small-group workshop for 6th graders focused on CASEL Relationship Skills—empathy and cooperation. Students will engage in interactive activities to practice perspective-taking, collaborate on role-play challenges, and reflect on supportive peer interactions.

Tier 2
5/13
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Karen Sullivan

S

MA Counselor, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist

Empathy and Team Building

In this lesson, students will engage in a game-based activity designed to promote empathy and team-building skills. This lesson is important for helping students develop social-emotional skills that are critical for personal development and positive interactions with others.

Tier 1
2/25
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Amy Doughty

S

MA Instructor

Connect and Thrive

In this 30-minute lesson, 7th graders will explore essential relationship skills—communication, empathy, and boundary-setting—to build positive connections with peers. These skills support students’ social-emotional growth and create a respectful, inclusive classroom culture.

Tier 1
Wednesday

QA Individual

h

NY Counselor

Quick Connect: Building Supportive Bonds

In this lesson, 9th graders will engage in quick activities to build supportive relationships. Through ice-breakers and paired discussions, students will practice active listening and empathy, which are crucial skills for developing strong connections with peers. This lesson is important as it helps students feel more connected and supported in their school environment, promoting a positive and inclusive atmosphere.

Tier 1
2/25

diana mclaughlin

S

MA Counselor

Kindness Counts: Building Peer Relationships

In this lesson, students will learn the importance of being kind and considerate to their peers. The lesson includes a short video on bullying, a classroom discussion, and a collaborative activity to reinforce positive behaviors. This lesson is crucial for fostering a supportive and inclusive classroom environment, which can lead to improved mental health and academic performance for all students.

Tier 1
2/25
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Shayla Chandler

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NY Instructor

Connect & Communicate

In this engaging 30-minute lesson, 9th graders will explore effective communication skills through interactive activities and discussions. Students will learn about active listening, nonverbal cues, and clear expression, essential for academic success and personal relationships.

Tier 1
6/4
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oguerrero

S

MA Social Worker

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson focuses on helping 8th-grade students understand the components of healthy relationships. Through discussion, reading, and activities, students will explore the importance of communication, respect, and boundaries in relationships. This lesson is crucial as it equips students with the skills to form positive and respectful relationships, which are essential for their social and emotional development.

Tier 1
2/25

Tracy David

S

MA Social Worker, Counselor

Real Talk Relationships

In this engaging 30-minute lesson, 9th-grade students will explore the fundamentals of healthy relationships, including trust, respect, and communication. Students will learn practical strategies for setting boundaries and resolving conflicts, helping them build stronger connections in their everyday lives.

Tier 1
5/21
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Latoya Ogunbona

Counselor, Social Worker

Emotions and Peer Engagement

This lesson aims to teach 4th-grade students about healthy peer engagement and emotional regulation through a short video and an interactive activity. By understanding and managing their emotions, students can improve their interactions with peers, fostering a supportive and collaborative classroom environment. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills that will benefit students in their academic and personal lives.

Tier 1
2/25

Charles Douglas

a

NC Behavior Interventionist

Understanding Relationships

This lesson introduces Year 12 students to various types of relationships and the characteristics that define healthy relationships. Through discussion and interactive activities, students will explore the dynamics of friendships, family, romantic, and professional relationships. This lesson is crucial for developing students' social-emotional skills and understanding the importance of respect, communication, and empathy in all types of relationships.

Tier 1
2/25

Kerry Robinson

Instructor

Navigating the Maze of Relationships: A Personal Journey

This two-session lesson for 7th graders in a private school setting focuses on understanding and navigating personal relationships. It's designed to provide students with the tools to build healthy relationships, recognize unhealthy patterns, and develop communication skills. This lesson is crucial for personal development and emotional intelligence, empowering students to form meaningful connections and handle social challenges effectively.

Tier 1
2/28
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Nancy Love

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MD Instructor

Exploring Romantic Relationships

This lesson introduces middle school students to the concept of romantic relationships, focusing on understanding emotions, respect, and communication. It's important for students to start thinking about these topics in a safe and guided environment, as it helps them develop healthy relationship skills for the future.

Tier 1
2/25
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Rachel Doe

S

MA Social Worker

Understanding Healthy Relationships

This lesson aims to educate high school students about the characteristics of healthy and unhealthy relationships, with a focus on teen dating violence awareness. By using a TED talk video, students will learn to recognize warning signs of unhealthy love and discuss ways to foster healthier connections. This lesson is crucial in empowering students to build respectful and safe relationships, and to identify and prevent relationship abuse.

Tier 1
2/25
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Roxanna Ayala Nieves

E

CA Social Worker

Reflecting on Peer Relationships

This lesson encourages 7th graders to reflect on their relationships with peers and how these relationships have evolved over time. Through a combination of experiential learning and collaborative discussion, students will engage in activities that promote self-awareness and empathy. This lesson is important as it helps students develop social-emotional skills, fostering a supportive and understanding classroom environment.

Tier 1
2/25
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Jenny Kaplan

S

MA Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson introduces 8th-grade students to the concept of healthy relationships by exploring mutual respect, trust, and communication. Students will learn to identify the characteristics of a healthy relationship and discuss how these can prevent relationship violence. This lesson is important as it equips students with the knowledge to foster positive interactions and recognize unhealthy patterns, promoting their social and emotional well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Temi Kufeji

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NY Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

In this lesson, students will explore the components of healthy relationships and learn to identify unhealthy behaviors. Through role-playing activities, they will practice communication and setting boundaries. This lesson is crucial for developing social-emotional skills and fostering respectful interactions among peers.

Tier 1
2/25
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Tracey Bennett

q

TX Counselor

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson explores the characteristics of healthy relationships and provides strategies for effective communication and conflict resolution. Students will engage in interactive role-playing scenarios to practice these skills. The importance of this lesson lies in empowering students to build and maintain positive and respectful relationships.

Tier 1
2/25

Twila Williams

q

TX Counselor

Building Bridges

This lesson aims to help young students build and understand the importance of healthy relationships. Through an engaging video and active games, students will learn the significance of teamwork, communication, and gratitude in their relationships. By the end of this lesson, students should be able to identify key characteristics of healthy relationships and practice these through interactive activities.

Tier 1
2/25

Bri’Anca Jordan

p

TN Instructor

Building Bridges

In this 30-minute lesson, 9th graders will explore essential relationship skills like active listening, empathy, and effective communication. Through engaging warm-ups, discussions, and role-play activities, students learn to build trust and respect—skills that will strengthen friendships and family ties.

Tier 1
5/28
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oguerrero

S

MA Social Worker

Building Healthy Relationships

This lesson introduces students to the key components of healthy relationships, such as communication, respect, and boundaries. Through group discussions and role-plays, students will have the opportunity to practice and reflect on these concepts, helping them to identify and foster healthy relationships in their own lives.

Tier 1
2/25

Rosalinda Estrada

q

TX Counselor

Building Bridges: Navigating Relationships

This lesson focuses on teaching 7th-grade students essential relationship skills, such as effective communication, empathy, and conflict resolution. These skills are crucial for students' social development and help them build healthy relationships with peers, family, and teachers. The lesson is designed for a single 30-minute session and is suitable for a Tier 1 classroom setting.

Tier 1
4/9
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Puja Pokhrel

Instructor