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Risk Assessment & Crisis Management

Risk Assessment & Crisis Management

Discover free, expertly curated resources on risk assessment and crisis management tailored for educators, students, and parents. Gain practical skills in identifying warning signs, intervening effectively, and responding to crises with confidence. Explore interactive lessons, real-world case studies, and step-by-step guides designed to empower you in supporting wellbeing and safety within your community.

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Coping Strategies Exploration

This lesson is designed for a one-on-one counseling session with a 4th-grade student. The focus is on helping the student identify five coping strategies they can use when experiencing heightened emotions. This lesson is important as it equips the student with practical tools to manage their emotions, promoting emotional regulation and resilience.

Tier 3
2/25
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Gianna Akerberg

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MA Counselor, Social Worker

Understanding and Coping with Trauma

This lesson aims to help 7th-grade students understand trauma and develop coping strategies. Through experiential and game-based learning, students will engage in activities that promote trauma-informed awareness and collaborative learning. This lesson is crucial for fostering resilience and emotional intelligence, equipping students with tools to manage stress and trauma effectively.

Tier 1
2/25
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Arthur Tripp

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NC Instructor

Creating an Emotional Safety Plan

This lesson focuses on helping students understand the importance of having an emotional safety plan and guiding them to create their own. This is crucial for their emotional well-being in various situations, fostering a sense of preparedness and confidence in managing their emotions.

Tier 1
2/25

Brian Anderson

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NY Instructor

Meet Your Counselor: An Interactive Introduction

This lesson introduces students to the school counselor through interactive activities, helping them understand the counselor's role in supporting personal and academic growth and the importance of mental health. This session is crucial for building a supportive school environment and encouraging students to seek help when needed.

Tier 1
2/25
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Robert Conceison

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MA Counselor

Crisis Toolkit

A small-group program offering targeted tools and strategies for students who need extra support in de-escalating emotions during crisis moments. This 30-minute Tier 2 (group) session for 7th graders helps them identify triggers, practice de-escalation skills, and create personalized safety plans.

Tier 2
5/7
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Art Fergusson

Instructor

Emotions and Report Cards

This lesson helps students prepare for the emotional impact of receiving their report cards. By using trauma-informed teaching and restorative practices, students will learn to identify and manage their emotions effectively. This lesson is crucial for fostering emotional resilience and promoting a healthy response to academic feedback.

Tier 1
2/25
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Joleen Shillingford

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NY Counselor

Counselor's Toolbox

In this lesson, students will learn about the various tools and resources that a school counselor uses to help with problems and emotions. The students will then create their own 'toolbox' of coping skills and resources that they can take home. This lesson is essential as it helps young students understand the support available to them and equips them with basic emotional tools for resilience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Erika Morris

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TX Counselor

Counselor's Toolbox: Skills for Success

This lesson introduces 5th-grade students to essential skills and tools used by school counselors, focusing on problem-solving and effective communication. These skills are crucial for students' personal and academic success, helping them navigate challenges and build strong relationships.

Tier 1
2/25

Glenda Glenn

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NC Counselor

Healing Through Expression

This lesson aims to provide a safe and supportive environment for homeless students to express and process their trauma. Through a guided discussion and a creative activity, students will have the opportunity to share their feelings and learn coping strategies. This lesson is important as it helps students build resilience and emotional awareness, which are crucial for their well-being and academic success.

Tier 2
2/25
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Lisa Messer

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NC Social Worker

Meet Your School Counselor!

In this lesson, students will be introduced to the school counselor and learn about their role in the school. This lesson is important as it helps students understand the support available to them, ensuring they are aware of who to turn to for help with social, emotional, or academic issues.

Tier 1
2/25
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Kate Guilmette

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VT Counselor

Supporting Students After Trauma

This lesson aims to provide middle school students with a supportive environment to process emotions after witnessing a traumatic event. It incorporates trauma-informed teaching strategies to help students feel safe and understood. The lesson includes a brief discussion, a reading, and a video to introduce coping mechanisms and emotional management.

Tier 1
2/25
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James Dill

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NY Instructor

Coping with School Anxiety

This lesson is designed to help a 10th-grade student develop and implement personalized coping strategies to manage anxiety related to attending school. Through a combination of discussion, activity, and quiz, the student will explore their feelings, create actionable strategies, and assess their understanding. This lesson is important as it empowers the student to overcome barriers and improve their ability to complete assigned tasks.

Tier 3
2/25

Kyle Ryan

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CA Psychologist

Coping and Communication

This lesson aims to provide students with coping strategies and create clear channels for communication to help them process recent unsettling events. By engaging in a trauma-informed discussion and inquiry-based activities, students will learn to express their feelings and concerns in a safe environment. This lesson is crucial in helping students feel more secure and supported, both at school and at home.

Tier 1
2/25
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Corey Maloney

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MA School Administrator

Coping and Communication

This lesson aims to provide students with coping strategies and create clear channels for communication to help them process recent unsettling events. By engaging in a trauma-informed discussion and inquiry-based activities, students will learn to express their feelings and concerns in a safe environment. This lesson is crucial in helping students feel more secure and supported, both at school and at home.

Tier 1
2/25
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Corey Maloney

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MA School Administrator

Welcome to School Counseling

This lesson aims to introduce Grade 6 students to the school's counseling services. It helps students understand the role of the counselor and the type of support they can provide. The lesson is essential for fostering a supportive school environment where students feel comfortable seeking help when needed.

Tier 1
2/25
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Amy Hill

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TX Counselor

Understanding and Coping with Grief

This lesson introduces 5th-grade students to the concept of grief and provides them with strategies to cope with it. Using a combination of restorative practices, trauma-informed teaching, and game-based learning, students will engage in a discussion, watch a video, and complete a reflective activity. This lesson is important as it equips students with the emotional tools to handle loss and trauma, fostering resilience and emotional intelligence.

Tier 1
2/25
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Marshetta Wheeler

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TX Counselor

Calm and Confident

This lesson aims to introduce second graders to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) techniques to help them manage anxiety. Through a combination of game-based learning, experiential activities, and discussion, students will learn to identify anxious thoughts and practice calming strategies. This lesson is important as it equips young students with tools to manage their emotions, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25

Stacie Browne-Gallagher

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NY Counselor, Psychologist, General Education Teacher, Special Education Teacher, Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist, School Administrator

Superhero Skills: Managing Anxiety for Third Graders

This three-session lesson is designed to help an anxious third grader develop effective coping skills, identify and overcome barriers, and improve communication and listening skills. Through engaging discussions and activities, the student will learn to manage anxiety and stress, empowering them with strategies to handle challenging situations. Each session is 15 minutes long, focusing on individual support for a student with undiagnosed anxiety.

Tier 3
3/12
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Kiley Horn

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AZ Counselor

Conquering Test Anxiety: Building Confidence and Calm

This 4-session lesson is designed for students in grades 3-5 to help them manage and overcome testing anxiety. Through engaging activities, games, and discussions, students will learn strategies to build confidence and remain calm during tests. Each session is 20 minutes long, focusing on different aspects of anxiety management and providing practical tools that students can use in real-life testing situations.

Tier 1
4/3
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Hazel Boatwright

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NC Social Worker

Anxiety Busters

This lesson helps 5th grade students learn how to manage anxiety through active learning. Students will engage in a discussion to understand what anxiety is and how it affects them, followed by a worksheet activity to practice anxiety management techniques. This lesson is important as it equips students with practical skills to handle stress and anxiety, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Melissa Mader

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MA Counselor

Meet Your Counselor

This lesson will introduce students to their school counselor through interactive activities and discussion. It's essential for students to feel comfortable approaching their counselor for support, and this lesson aims to build that familiarity and trust.

Tier 1
2/25
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Andrea Asbun Handal

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TX Counselor

Counselor Bingo

In this engaging lesson, students will get to know their school counselor through a fun and interactive Bingo game. This activity helps students understand the counselor's role and feel comfortable approaching them for support. It also encourages listening skills and provides a platform for questions and discussions.

Tier 1
2/25
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Vanessa Duckett

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TX Counselor

Anxiety Busters: Game On!

This lesson aims to help a 7th grade boy reduce anxiety through engaging activities and visual aids. By incorporating game-based and experiential learning strategies, the lesson will provide practical tools and techniques to manage anxiety effectively. This approach is crucial for building resilience and promoting mental well-being in middle school students.

Tier 3
2/25

Kristen Williams

E

CA Psychologist

Stand Strong: Understanding and Preventing Suicide

This lesson educates students on the importance of self-confidence, seeking help, and surrounding oneself with supportive people as methods to prevent suicide. It uses a combination of video content, interactive discussions, and worksheet activities to engage students in understanding how to handle bullying and know when to seek help. This lesson is crucial as it equips young students with the awareness and skills needed to support themselves and others in difficult situations.

Tier 1
2/25
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Cynthia Espino

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TX Counselor

Anxiety Busters: Coping Skills Workshop

This lesson plan is designed to help students in grades 2-5 identify their personal triggers for anxiety and develop effective coping skills. Through a series of eight 30-minute sessions, students will engage in experiential and game-based learning activities, discussions, and collaborative exercises. This lesson is important as it empowers students with the tools to manage anxiety, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Melissa Avery

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AZ Counselor

Anxiety Busters

This lesson focuses on helping a 4th-grade student practice and demonstrate ways to decrease personal anxiety associated with school activities and peer interactions. Through experiential learning and game-based activities, the student will learn practical techniques to manage anxiety. This lesson is important as it equips the student with essential skills to navigate school life more comfortably and confidently.

Tier 3
2/25

Iana Aguilera

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CA Instructor

Anxiety Busters

This 5-session lesson for 7th graders focuses on evidence-based activities to manage anxiety, providing students with practical tools and strategies to cope with stress. It's important as it empowers students with skills to handle anxiety, promoting mental well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
5/5
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bbeldenscott

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MA Counselor, Social Worker

Getting to Know Your Counselor

This lesson aims to introduce the school counselor to third-grade students. The session will include a fun and interactive activity, watching a brief video, and a group discussion to help students understand the role of their counselor and learn some personal facts about them. This will build a foundation of trust and familiarity, which is crucial for students to feel comfortable seeking help from their counselor in the future.

Tier 1
2/25
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Vanessa Duckett

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TX Counselor

Understanding Triggers

Identify personal triggers that may escalate into crises and develop personalized strategies to manage them. This lesson is crucial for helping students recognize and manage their emotional responses, promoting mental well-being and crisis prevention. Designed for a 12th-grade student, this individual lesson will take 20 minutes.

Tier 3
4/11

Yvonne Brown

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CA Psychologist

Understanding Triggers

Identify personal triggers that may escalate into crises and develop personalized strategies to manage them. This lesson is crucial for helping students recognize and manage their emotional responses, promoting mental well-being and crisis prevention. Designed for a 12th-grade student, this individual lesson will take 20 minutes.

Tier 3
4/9
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Adam Sipes

E

CA Counselor

Coping with Anxiety: Strategies for Success

This lesson aims to equip 10th-grade students with practical strategies to cope with anxiety. By engaging in a discussion, watching a video, and participating in an activity, students will learn to identify anxiety triggers and apply coping mechanisms. This lesson is crucial as it empowers students to manage their mental health effectively, fostering resilience and emotional well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Karla Harness Brown

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CA Instructor

Coping Strategies in Action

This lesson introduces 6th-grade students to effective coping strategies for managing anxiety. Through experiential learning and trauma-informed teaching, students will engage in activities that help them understand and practice these strategies in a supportive environment. This lesson is crucial for building resilience and emotional regulation skills, which are essential for students' overall well-being and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25
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Aisha Squalli

S

MA Counselor

Grounding and Coping Skills

This lesson introduces grounding techniques to help students manage distressing emotions and memories. It is designed to support a 6th-grade boy in overcoming trauma from a robbery by teaching him practical coping strategies. The lesson is important as it empowers students with tools to handle emotional distress, promoting resilience and emotional well-being.

Tier 3
2/25
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Zerica Bills

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TX Counselor

Creative Coping Strategies

This lesson encourages students to explore creative ways to cope with stress using art, music, and journaling. By expressing their emotions creatively, students can develop personalized coping strategies to use in challenging times. This lesson is important as it equips students with tools to manage stress, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25

Jeanette Flores Tyler

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NC Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist, Counselor

Understanding Threats and Safety

This lesson is designed for 3rd-grade students to understand the seriousness of threats, particularly in a school setting, and why such behavior is unacceptable. The lesson will include a reading, worksheet, and lesson plan to guide students through the topic independently, suitable for completion in an in-school suspension (ISS) setting. The duration is 2 hours.

Tier 1
2/26
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Keri Brewer

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NC School Administrator

Understanding Grief and Coping Strategies

This lesson introduces 6th and 7th graders to the concept of grief and loss, focusing on understanding emotions and learning healthy coping strategies. Through age-appropriate discussions and activities, students will gain tools to express their feelings and seek support, fostering emotional resilience and mental health awareness.

Tier 1
2/25

Jeanette Flores Tyler

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NC Social Worker, Behavior Interventionist, Counselor

Anxiety Busters: School Edition

This lesson helps a 4th-grade student practice and demonstrate ways to decrease personal anxiety associated with school activities and peer interactions. Through experiential and game-based learning, the student will engage in activities that promote relaxation and confidence. This lesson is important as it equips students with practical strategies to manage anxiety, enhancing their overall school experience and social interactions.

Tier 3
2/25

Iana Aguilera

E

CA Instructor

Anxiety Busters: Calm and Confident

This lesson aims to help 3rd graders understand and manage anxiety through engaging activities and discussions. By using experiential and game-based learning strategies, students will learn practical techniques to cope with anxiety, fostering a sense of calm and confidence. This lesson is crucial as it equips young learners with essential emotional regulation skills, promoting mental well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Rene Kashmiri

S

MA Counselor

Meet Your School Counselor: A Friendly Introduction

Students will get to know the school counselor, understand their role, and learn how they can help. The session includes a fun ice-breaker game and a Q&A segment. This lesson is important because it builds a positive relationship between students and the counselor, making them more likely to seek help when needed.

Tier 1
2/25

Kim Coffman

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TX Counselor

Understanding Emotions and Behaviors

This lesson introduces 3rd-grade students to the concepts of autism, impulsiveness, and verbal threats. Through Trauma-Informed Teaching and Restorative Practices, students will learn to understand and empathize with peers who may exhibit these behaviors. This lesson is important as it fosters a supportive and inclusive classroom environment, encouraging students to seek help and support each other.

Tier 1
2/25
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DANELLE LOCKLEAR

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NC Social Worker

Coping with Divorce: 10-Lesson Series

This 10-lesson series aims to help middle school students understand and cope with the emotional impact of divorce. Each lesson focuses on a different aspect of coping, such as emotional awareness, communication skills, and building resilience. By using trauma-informed teaching strategies, students will engage in collaborative learning and restorative practices to explore their feelings and develop healthy coping mechanisms. This series is crucial as it provides a safe space for students to express their emotions and learn strategies to manage them effectively.

Tier 1
2/25
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Jacqueline Lynch

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AZ Counselor

Calm and Collected

This lesson aims to help 4th-grade students identify and manage anxiety through collaborative discussion and active exercises. Addressing anxiety at a young age is crucial as it helps students develop coping mechanisms and contributes to their emotional well-being, promoting better classroom engagement and overall mental health.

Tier 1
2/25
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Caighla Wilson

S

MA Math, Language Arts

Managing OCD and Anxiety

This lesson introduces high school students to effective strategies for managing OCD and anxiety. Through a guided discussion, students will explore practical techniques to cope with these challenges, fostering a supportive environment for sharing and learning. This lesson is crucial in helping students develop resilience and self-awareness, empowering them to handle stress and anxiety in their daily lives.

Tier 1
2/25
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Kelly Fowler

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AZ Social Worker

Anxiety Busters

This lesson focuses on reducing anxiety through experiential and active learning strategies. Students will engage in a discussion to share their experiences and learn from each other, followed by a worksheet activity that provides practical exercises to manage anxiety. This lesson is important as it equips students with tools to handle stress, promoting mental well-being and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25

Michelle Schneider

E

CA Psychologist

Understanding Anxiety

This lesson plan aims to help 8th graders understand and manage anxiety through discussions, activities, and worksheets. By exploring the concept of anxiety, students will learn to identify their own feelings and develop strategies to cope with them. This lesson is important as it equips students with essential emotional regulation skills, promoting mental well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25

Alma Pacheco

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TX Counselor

Crisis Check-Up

A brief structured check-in tool to monitor ongoing suicide risk factors and update safety plans dynamically with a 9th grade student in a 20-minute one-on-one session. This Tier 3 individual intervention helps counselors assess current risk, track mood trends, and provide coping support to keep students safe.

Tier 3
5/9
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Adam Sipes

E

CA Counselor

Facing Fears

This lesson helps individual students understand and confront their fears through cognitive-behavioral strategies. It is crucial for building confidence and resilience, specifically designed for a 10th-grade student. The lesson is structured for a 40-minute session, focusing on school psychology.

Tier 3
5/6
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Madeline Perry

S

MA Counselor

Emotional Regulation Skills

This counseling session is designed to help a 5th-grade student learn and practice emotional regulation skills. By focusing on coping strategies such as deep breathing, positive self-talk, and visualization, the student will gain tools to manage emotions effectively. These skills are crucial for personal development and can enhance the student's ability to handle stress and emotional challenges.

Tier 3
2/25

Hollie Overholt

E

CA Counselor

Calm and Collected: Coping Skills

This lesson introduces 5th grade students to coping skills for managing anxiety through active and collaborative learning. Students will engage in a project-based activity to explore different coping strategies, participate in a discussion to share personal experiences, and complete a worksheet to reinforce their understanding. This lesson is important as it equips students with practical tools to handle anxiety, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Sara Townes

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MA Social Worker

Anxiety Busters

This lesson focuses on helping 8th-grade students understand and manage anxiety through interactive and experiential learning strategies. Students will participate in a discussion to share their experiences and learn from each other, followed by a worksheet activity that provides practical exercises to manage anxiety. This lesson is important as it equips students with tools to handle stress, promoting mental well-being and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25

Yvonne Brown

E

CA Psychologist

Color Your Feelings

This lesson is designed to help a 3rd-grade student with emotional disturbance learn coping skills for managing anxiety. Through a creative and experiential approach, the student will use a coloring worksheet to identify and express where they feel emotions in their body. This activity is important as it provides a non-verbal way for the student to connect with their emotions, fostering self-awareness and emotional regulation.

Tier 3
2/25

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

E

CA Psychologist

Making Americans: School Counseling Impact

This lesson explores the role of counseling services in shaping students' identities and experiences in public schools. It is designed for adults, focusing on how counseling can support the development of well-rounded individuals in a diverse society. The session will last 30 minutes and is crucial for understanding the integration of counseling in educational settings.

Tier 1
4/7
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brynn.cooper

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MA School Administrator

Advice Columnists for a Day

In this lesson, students will step into the role of advice columnists, learning how to craft considerate and constructive advice. They will read letters seeking advice and work in groups to write thoughtful responses. This lesson is important as it helps students develop empathy, critical thinking, and communication skills, which are essential for personal and social development.

Tier 2
2/25
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Stephanie Samuels

S

MA General Education Teacher

Calm Minds, Strong Hearts

This lesson aims to help 10th graders understand and manage anxiety through a combination of Trauma-Informed Teaching, Restorative Practices, and Project-Based Learning. By engaging in a reflective activity, participating in a guided discussion, and completing a worksheet, students will learn practical strategies to reduce anxiety and build emotional resilience. This lesson is important as it equips students with tools to handle stress, promoting mental well-being and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25
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Leanne Carbone

S

MA Counselor, Social Worker

SEL Support: Navigating Gun Violence

This lesson aims to provide social-emotional learning (SEL) support to high school students in the context of recent gun violence situations. By using trauma-informed teaching strategies, the lesson will help students process their emotions, understand the importance of seeking help, and develop coping strategies. This lesson is crucial in fostering a supportive environment where students feel safe to express their feelings and learn how to manage stress and anxiety related to traumatic events.

Tier 1
2/25
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Viktoriya Mushailova

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NY School Administrator, Special Education Teacher

Therapy Introduction for Kids

This lesson introduces 3rd-grade students to the concept of therapy in a simple and engaging way. Through a guided discussion, students will learn what therapy is, why people might go to therapy, and how it can help. This lesson is important as it helps normalize the idea of seeking help and promotes mental health awareness from a young age.

Tier 1
3/21

Ryan Holt Ph.D.

E

CA Psychologist

Comfort Zone: Feeling Safe at School

This lesson aims to create a safe and supportive environment for 3rd-grade students, helping them feel more comfortable and reducing instances of crying during school. By using trauma-informed teaching strategies, the lesson will focus on understanding emotions and building a sense of security. This is important as it fosters a positive learning environment and supports students' emotional well-being.

Tier 1
3/4

David Hoch

E

CA Psychologist

Stress Management & Control

This lesson introduces 5th graders to stress management and impulsivity control through active learning. It includes a video and a worksheet to help students understand and practice techniques for managing stress and anxiety. This lesson is crucial as it equips students with essential skills to handle stress and impulsive behaviors, promoting emotional well-being and better decision-making.

Tier 1
2/25
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Brunna Afonso

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MA Counselor

Understanding CBT: Thoughts, Feelings, Actions

This lesson introduces students to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), focusing on the interplay between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Students will explore how these elements influence each other and learn practical strategies to manage stress and anxiety. This lesson is crucial for developing self-awareness and emotional regulation skills, which are essential for mental well-being and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25

Deb Schmill

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NY Instructor

Calm and Collected

In this lesson, students will learn to identify situations that may cause anxiety and explore appropriate coping strategies. This lesson is important as it helps young students recognize their feelings and equips them with tools to manage anxiety, fostering emotional resilience and well-being.

Tier 1
2/25
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Gianna Akerberg

S

MA Counselor, Social Worker

Coping Skills Toolbox

In this lesson, students will create a personalized toolbox of coping strategies to handle stress and anxiety. Through hands-on activities and role-playing scenarios, students will practice and refine these skills. This lesson is important as it equips students with practical tools to manage stress, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.

Tier 1
2/25
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Melissa Geary

E

CA Instructor

Getting to Know Your Counselor

In this lesson, students will have an interactive session with their school counselor to understand the counselor's role, how they can help, and when to approach them for support. This lesson aims to build trust and awareness among students, encouraging them to seek help when needed.

Tier 1
2/25
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Lindsey Price

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TX Counselor

Managing Anger Positively

This lesson focuses on teaching 4th-grade students effective anger management techniques. Through a combination of video, discussion, and a worksheet, students will learn to recognize their anger and apply coping strategies. This lesson is crucial for helping students develop emotional regulation skills, which are essential for their social and academic success.

Tier 1
2/25
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BOB ALLAIN

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NC Counselor